5 quotes from For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women : ‘Even if a woman knows in her head that her husband finds her beautiful. For Men Only has ratings and reviews. If you read my review on Ms. Feldhahn’s other book, ‘For Women Only,’ I think you won’t be surprised that the. Shaunti and Jeff have unearthed a treasure chest of insights—eye-opening and life-changing.” —Andy Stanley, senior pastor, North.

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Mar 19, Pages. As I’m reading, since it’s written from a male perspective to men, I’m gaining insight even though the book is about women.

For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women by Shaunti Feldhahn

That her spouse finds her ‘beautiful’ and that her husband ‘only has eyes for her’. In short, from the perspective of this book alone, men must cater to and coddle the emotions of their wives, but if they ever have an emotional response to something, it should be felhdahn like a hot potato. My best advisors have always been women. That being the case, though, this book has some shortcomings.

I really was enjoying feldnahn book. Women have just as strong a need to be “pursued romantically” as men have being “sexually desired”. This is fresh and relevant–good stuff for every marriage. Meanwhile, the author keeps trying to convince us of his new found authority on the subject via his immersion into the world of women, and, well, it gets old.

Jul 29, Steve Bremner rated it really liked it. This book very much felt derogatory toward women flr points. Complain It’s not that this book was bad per se. Sep 23, Fuad Alsultan rated it really liked it.


Her books, For Women Only and For Men Onlyare the best I know at providing rich and practical gender understanding that can be used immediately. Apr 28, Robin DeJarnett rated it it was ok Shelves: The power of effective listening.

I had been prompted to turning back to fledhahn after listening to a talk on marriage based on the author’s previous book For Women Only.

For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women

Though, I would not think other books would put it the same way this one did. Whether women are visual or not and I know for a fact many arethey have their own escapes, be it through soap operas, romance novels or some other source.

I’m seeing these things that seem perfectly normal and obvious to me being explained in excruciating detail as if they are mysteries to men Feb 03, Seth rated it really liked it.

Most of my intimate friends have always been women. It will help you be the husband God wants you to be. Her content guides and changes lives. That is why I am giving it so many stars.

mwn It’s not fof this book was bad per se. It’s insulting and dehumanizing, and is therefore devoid of empathy Through Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn ‘s national scientific survey and hundreds of interviews, “For Men Only” reveals what you can do today to improve your relationship.

I walked away with a few discussion points I’ll bring up with my wife, but overall was somewhat insulted by it’s presentation and disappointed by its lack of depth. This book was definitely intended for a casual audience, so he puts in plenty of entertainment. To ask other readers questions about For Men Onlyplease sign up.


The first time I read it, I had just started dating the woman who is now my wife, almost four years ago. She often with her husband, Jeff speaks at 50 events a year around the world. Her groundbreaking research-based books, such as For Women Only, have sold more than 2 million copies in 23 languages and are widely read in homes, counseling centers feldhaun corporations worldwide.

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But this book has often made me feel that women are a bunch of simple-minded, confused, all too emotional creatures. I think it’s more likely that Lori does a courtesy laugh to avoid having a difficult conversation with her husband because either 1 She knows she doesn’t appreciate what he said but isn’t sure herself WHY it doesn’t sit well with her, or 2 She knows he won’t understand why she can’t just “take a joke”. I’ve been doing the best I can, and Felhahn want to do better Tell her you are excited and cannot wait.

The third reason she could be upset about is her circumstances, take your time to understand her. As I received mn teasing from male friends when they found out I was reading this book, but I make no apologies! But overall, I wouldn’t say it was a waste of time – it was better than some other marriage books I’ve read.